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To Resolve or Not to Resolve, That is the Question

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ResolutionBy C. Thomas Terry

In the nether months of 2006, I received this picture from my holiday work party. Apart from the fashionable co-workers flanking my mid-party mug, the picture tells an ugly story and was a real wake-up call. Having not seen a recent picture of myself in recent months, I was stunned at how–let’s be gracious–horrific I looked (contrary to the optics, I wasn’t over-served; I was blinking).  When had I started shaving only a few times a week? How did I not notice? How did I ever think this looked remotely cool? When had my face swelled to look like a Hamtramck paczkiWhen did I get this OLD?

So like so many well-intended folks approaching the new year, I resolved to lose weight and shave more often. As weeks passed and co-workers asked, "How are the resolutions going?” I hunkered down, drew deep with my once limitless wellspring of discipline and intensity and…shaved. I even lost four pounds by eating differently, taking the dogs for longer walks and resisting the urge to collapse on the couch after dinner for the obligatory two-course dessert of back-to-back Scrubs reruns (my wife’s fault, I’m a sucker for snappy writing). As I battled the daily encroaching stubble and longings for third and fourth slices of Jet’s deep dish pizza, I learned a subtle difference in a timeless epistemological struggle facing all mankind, and that is:

Resolution is an act of becoming, not being.

In the past, once I "slipped" and my resolution fell apart, I might have given up. But not this time.  I discovered the joy of resolution as a process, not a one-time door to pass through.  Like shaving itself, you don’t "resolve" once and call it a day, or even a month. You tell yourself, and continue to tell yourself, that you can do better and just keep on keepin’ on. Clean mirrors and digital scales don’t hurt either.

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  1. You aren’t overserved, you are blinking, huh?
    And I guess that’s a Perrier water you’re drinking there too, huh?
    If that was mid-party, I’d love to see how you were blinking by late-party.
    Party on, dude!

    Posted by: Fred | March 31, 2007
  2. Welcome to the DIFF, Mr. Terry! I have to agree just a bit with “Fred,” above. Just a bit. ;-)
    But I really like how you clearly illustrate resolution, and support you in your effort to keep on keepin’ on

    Posted by: Christy | April 2, 2007

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